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Motivational Monday

On August 26, 2024

In Motivational Monday, News and Announcements

The 5 “L’s” of Life Series

Hey friends! So let’s continue our series this week on love. This topic is pretty broad so we have plenty to discuss. So, let’s talk about it.

I did a quick google search to find some physical benefits of love. Love and your health go hand in hand. Did you know when you love and show love your life expectancy is increased? It also helps you maintain a healthy heart, reduces depression, boosts your immune system, lowers blood pressure, reduces stress, eases acute/chronic pain, helps your tummy, and improves your sleep? That’s…a lot! Seeing all the physical health benefits, how can anyone believe we were not here to love one another, right?

Love is defined as a strong or deep affection for; to like or enjoy very much; to hold dear or cherish; concern for the good of another. But what is the biblical definition of love? 1 John 4:7-10 defines it pretty well, “Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins.” This passage tells us that God is love; love comes from God; love was demonstrated by sending His only son to die for our sins; and, love is NOT that we love Him but that God loves us.

God.is.love.

Perfect…that’s great Jennifer. But, how and who does God want us to love? Because, I have a hard time loving everyone. Listen, I understand but imagine being God. He loves everyone and I’m sure there are some He wants to roll his eyes over.

Love everyone. Yep. You need to. In the Parable of the Good Samaritan (Luke 10:25-37) Jesus made it clear that loving your neighbor means more than loving those you know, like or most like you. It extends to those that are different. This includes people whose political affiliations are different from you (which is a pretty hot topic at the moment!). But different races, religions, social circles, and even those who make fun of you. Why? Because we all sin. Their sin is just different from yours and you want to be loved right? In fact, Jesus loved the most unlovable people. WE are to do the same.

Second, you need to exhibit biblical characteristics of love. One of my favorite passages in the Bible is 1 Corinthians 13:4-8. “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.” We live in a world where we are told we have to accept anything and everything or we are hateful. Well, in a biblical sense, love is caring about a person’s soul. So we are expected to share the truth and gospel message in love. Romans 12:9, “Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good.”

Third, pairs really nicely with the second point and that’s love one another in action and truth. 1 John 3:16-18, “This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers and sisters. If anyone has material possessions and sees a brother or sister in need but has no pity on them, how can the love of God be in that person? Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth.” We can’t die on a cross for someone’s sins like Jesus but we can act in love. You balance this with God’s Word and prayer.

Listen, loving everyone is not an easy thing to do. Trust me, I feel this everyday. And because this can be a struggle for me, I have to pray about it. In fact, I pray the most for people I DON’T get along with because I know I need to do better. I know the entire Bible is based on God’s love through Jesus. Faith and hope have a fulfillment date but love is never ending.

Love you all,

Jennifer

Motivational Monday

By Jennifer Robbins

On August 19, 2024

In Motivational Monday, News and Announcements

The 5 “L’s” of Life Series

Several weeks ago, Cheryl Star gave me some notes about the 5 “L’s” of life. I was honored that she thought of me and these Motivational Mondays. But I’ll be honest, when I looked through it, I thought, “How am I going to make this a motivation?” And today, it just hit me. So get ready for another miniseries!

The 5 “L’s” of life was written by Dr. Gladys McGarey. She has a book called, “The Well Lived Life: A 102-Year-Old Doctor’s Six Secrets to Health and Happiness At Every Age”. To be very fair and transparent, I have not read the book. So this miniseries is based loosely on her writings. And by loosely, I mean we will be talking the L’s she names in the book. The L’s are: life, love, listening, labor and laughter. Today, I want to focus on life. So you know the drill…let’s talk about it.

When I think of life, I think living. And not just, “Oh I have a heartbeat” living, I mean, “I wouldn’t want to miss this for the world” living. Living life to our fullest. The kind of life where you can find beauty in anything because you notice it. Butterfly wings. Children laughing. A cool breeze when the sun is shining. Love. Even death. But is that what living life to the fullest is about?

John 10:10 says, “The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they have life, and have it abundantly.” What does that mean? Did Jesus mean we should live a life of comfort? Plenty of money? Few troubles? Eh, as much as we would like that (to a degree) I don’t think that is what He meant and here’s why. That’s not life. Life is not always peaceful and easy. And why is that? Simple answer. Sin.

Well Jennifer, what did He mean? Well, I can only base my answer on scripture and I genuinely hope this is correct. But, I think Jesus meant that to have a “full, abundant life” means to live so close to him that we become one with him. Paul talks about this imitation of Christ in the letter to the Philippians. Paul talks about knowing Christ and sharing in his sufferings and becoming like him in death.

I know you are reading this and you are thinking, “So my life is not always going to be great. But I am supposed to live it abundantly and be like Jesus…even the hard parts of being Jesus. Wait, wasn’t Jesus crucified? Wow. You are really selling this whole life motivation thing Jennifer!” Friends listen. We can do this. If you know anything about the Bible and Jesus, he oozed love. His attitude was literally everything. Even when he said no, it was out of love. We NEED to adopt his attitude.

This attitude means you need to submit fully to Christ. You need to look past what you “think” your life should be and become a servant to Christ AND servants to each other. You need to be humble and obedient. You literally take your hands off your life and let it be controlled by Jesus. Can you do that? It’s HARD isn’t it??! Trust me, I get it! But if you do this, you will have no option but to imitate Christ in your thoughts, actions, words and opinions of others.

An “abundant life” is not about the people you know, the things you own, or how much money is in the bank. It’s not about religion or church. It’s not about how many times you have read the Bible. It’s about grace greater than our sin. It’s about you belonging to God’s family. It’s about YOU sharing that news with EVERYONE. This abundant life is given to us free and unconditional.

So, how full is your life?

Love you all,

Jennifer

Motivational Monday

By Jennifer Robbins

On August 12, 2024

In Motivational Monday, News and Announcements

Hey friends! Today, I want to talk about something that we all grew up hearing. “You need to forgive and forget.” Now friends, I don’t know about y’all but that’s a hard one for me. Let’s be honest for a second, forgiving is hard but doable most times, right? But forgetting…? Man, as much as I want to forget, I can’t and don’t. But what does the Bible say about this? So, let’s talk about it.

In real life, I have a big personality. As I have gotten older, I can tame it when needed but when I am being my true self, I can be alot. For you to see this side of me, I have to trust you and this wasn’t always the case. I used to be more carefree with myself. But in the past, I had people talk about my personality negatively. I am about to get pretty raw here, but it really hurt. I am not sure why it bothers me so bad but it does. I guess because I am more guarded and I feel like if you see that side of me, that’s authentically me. And, for you to see that side of me, you are/were a friend. Over the years, I have forgiven the people who hurt me but I never forgot. I…can’t. And I’m not sure I want to forget. So did this forgive and forget rule come from God?

No. Whew! I am so glad too!

Matthew 6:21 tells us we DO need to forgive. And as a person, I can tell you that letting anger and hurt eat you alive is no way to live. As a Christian, I can tell you that God has given you SO MUCH just so your sins are forgiven. So by not forgiving someone, are you saying you are better than God? I can hear you now, “No Jennifer. It’s complex and hard.” Trust me. I understand. But really, you don’t think it’s complex and hard for God? I’m serious. We ALL have our issues with forgiving but you HAVE to for you.

There are many places in the Bible it tells us to forgive, but nowhere does it say to forget. In fact, if you could just magically forget that might be a concern for you. Let me give you an example. An acquaintance robs you at gunpoint but asks for forgiveness as soon as they rob you. You forgive them and then POOF! You have forgotten all about the robbery. The next day, you come in contact with this acquaintance and they rob you AGAIN because you have no memory. You see what I mean? I know this is extreme but we have memories for a reason. That’s why God created us that way. For our safety, well being, and happiness.

I’ve talked about this before to other friends who struggle with “forgive and forget” and they feel guilty. Some believe that if you can’t forget, then you don’t truly forgive. Forgiving means you are no longer angry. You don’t have any negative thoughts about this person and you don’t seek revenge. In fact, Romans 12:19 tells us we should never seek revenge on anyone at any point of time. Forgiving just means to give it to God and let Him handle the situation and to allow Him to handle YOUR feelings.

By allowing Him to handle your feelings that means you will lose your anger, bitterness, resentment, hurt and your overall negative thoughts. If you have ever been in a situation where you have to forgive (which has to be everyone right?) then you know how these feelings weigh you down and you aren’t yourself. When you finally let go, it feels so good. One of the best feelings in the world to me, is sitting outside in the sun and there is a cool breeze. I swear it feels like a hug from God. That’s what forgiveness feels like to me.

This week, if you have some unresolved forgiveness issues, I want to challenge you to pray and seek God for helping you to forgive. You HAVE TO give it to Him. And likewise, if you have hurt someone, then maybe a way for them to rest with forgiveness is for YOU to reach out and apologize. Extend an olive branch. We all have to live on this Earth until we get to heaven. And fun fact, when you get to heaven, that hurt won’t matter!! So, if it doesn’t matter there, why are you holding on to it here?

Love you all,

Jennifer

Motivational Monday

By Jennifer Robbins

On August 5, 2024

In Motivational Monday, News and Announcements

As I was scrolling through Pinterest for inspiration for this week’s meals, I came across a prayer someone had pinned called the “I Don’t Know Prayer”. It goes like this: “You just go somewhere quiet and you sit at the feet of God and you say, ‘I don’t know. I don’t know where to go from here. I don’t know what is happening. I don’t know how to process this. I don’t know what to do with these emotions. I don’t know how to handle this situation’. And then with whatever little grain of faith you have, you say, ’but You know.’ And you leave it there. God most certainly hears your prayer. Declare Amen.”

Man, have I been there before! So, let’s talk about it!

When I was a young mother, life was pretty hectic and mundane at the same time. Everyday, we would get up, get dressed, get Logan dressed, feed him, pack his bag, get him to the car, take him to daycare, go to work, go back to get him, come home, cook dinner, get him a bath, read a book, cuddle, then I would shower, I MIGHT watch some TV but then I would go to bed. (For the record, Jon is a very involved dad and he would help wherever I needed him.) Even though the day is different, it’s the exact same. And you get…lost. Or at least, I did. I was lost in the middle of MY life.

Don’t get me wrong, I LOVE(D) my life. I love being a mom and wife. I love making my house a home. But how much time have I spent pouring laundry detergent in the washer? How much time have I spent asking Logan what he wants for dinner? It’s not washing or cooking, it’s the redundancy and cyclicality of it all. And then there is the time factor…

And the more I did, the more hidden I felt. I was unnoticed. I was unseen. I didn’t need a trophy. I didn’t need “atta girl” daily. But I was becoming more and more lost. I am sure Jon felt the same way. To this day, we talk about that time when life was hard. Everything from eating to talking was…hard. Why? We were lost.

You know who saw us? Who knew down to second how much time has been spent pouring that laundry detergent in the washer? Who saw every single thing I did and uttered, “Keep going”? My heavenly Father. How do I know this?

Hagar, who also felt unnoticed, unseen and hidden, He told her he saw her. (Genesis 16:6). He assured her He had a plan and this mundane work would last a season.

Ruth, who also was doing mundane work, picking up leftover grain for a season (Ruth 2:2) and He reminded her this would prepare her for a husband.

David was doing mundane work by shepherding sheep for a season (1 Samuel 16:19) and He reminded him how this prepared him to become king one day.

Peter and other disciples were doing mundane work by casting a fishing net in hopes of catching a plethora of fish (Matthew 4:19) and He reminded them how this would prepare the disciples to be fishers of men.

You see, the work you do doesn’t DEFINE you. I think we get caught up in that sometimes. What we do is for seasons. This mundane work you are doing creates character. There is beauty in mundane work. So what you are doing for this SEASON, lays groundwork for the future. Don’t get bogged down with “mundaneness”.

And for the record, God always sees you. You aren’t lost. He knows EXACTLY where you are at all times. He knows exactly where you have been, where you are today and where you are going! If you feel lost, remember that is just a feeling.

This week, as you are doing dishes or washing clothes and you are tired, it’s ok. It’s ok to feel tired and unnoticed. Feeling this way is just a reminder you need to pray. And your prayer can be the “I Don’t Know Prayer” and THAT’S ok too! Why? Because He’s got you. He sees you. He knows you’re tired and He has plans for you. Just know that what you are doing now is for just a very small season. That mundane work you’re doing is love. Imagine the love He shows you daily and what that entails on His part.

Love you all and see you Wednesday for the midweek message!

Jennifer

Motivational Monday

By Jennifer Robbins

On July 29, 2024

In Motivational Monday, News and Announcements

Motivational Monday

Hey Friends! How are you this week? I hope well and if not, maybe we can work on that this week. If I need to pray for you, please send a quick message to me (you can send it on the church’s messenger) and I will certainly add you to my prayer list. We will get through this, right?

So, as I was preparing to write today’s topic and I noted I was tired. I have told myself I probably need to take a break from Monday writing to just re-energize myself. Just a creative break. But that usually leads to a topic…so I write. 🙂 I was thinking about the Olympics, politics, my church family, etc. and I questioned why is it so hard to be a christian? Why do I feel like my beliefs are attacked? Well, you know the drill, let’s talk about it.

I’m sure by now you have at least heard about the Olympic opening ceremony debacle. Personally, I have seen still pictures but I refuse to watch it. Am I being ignorant by not watching it? I don’t believe so. I’m just not going to add to the number of views when the still pictures are enough. There are a large number of people who feel Christianity was mocked. Was that the intention? I’m not going to speculate because I didn’t create the “show”. Was it a nod to Greek mythology? Maybe but there again, that doesn’t align with Christianity, right? People think Christians need to “just get over it” and “it’s not all about God”. Well, that’s easy for a non-christian to say. But this is nothing new to us. Christians have been mocked and persecuted as far back as the beginning. It’s hard being a christian.

The act of accepting Christ is easy. Everything that follows is hard. I know that admitting it’s hard doesn’t exactly sell Christianity. But, the things you want the most in life, you work hard for. Whether it’s your career, your family, or a hobby. You dedicate a lot of time and hard work to it. So, why is this any different? If something was super easy to you, you wouldn’t continue with it because you are a scholar. God never said this was going to be easy.

Before you were a christian, you really didn’t know all your defects. At the very least, you weren’t bothered by it. I’ll give you an example. Have you ever decided to tackle a “small” project in your house? Maybe change a faucet in a sink just because you want a shiny new one. There is nothing wrong with the old one. So, you take out the old faucet and you notice some mold. So, you remove the sink. Then, the counter. Then, the cabinet. Then, the wall the pipes were running into because you have a MAJOR leak.

That’s like becoming a Christian. You know you are not perfect. You have a few things you need to work on. But then, you open your bible and you start studying the word. You just went from getting a shiny new faucet to tearing down the WHOLE house. Behind every outward sin you think you have and need to work on, is a whole slew of emotions that you need to deal with. Such as fear, anger, envy, etc.

And this is where you need to be because this is where freedom happens. But here is where it’s the hardest because you have to work. You have to carry that cross daily (Luke 9:23). This is like training at the gym (1 Timothy 4:7). When you are here, you might be mocked or ridiculed by your friends who were with you when you didn’t see your short comings. They are mocking you because they can’t see their flaws. They see nothing wrong with the old faucet and they aren’t interested in going to Lowe’s to get a new one!

In order to be a disciple of Jesus means you have to allow Jesus to discipline you. Jesus is REALLY invested in you too. He wants you to succeed on this journey more than you know. And here’s the thing, you are already “in” so you’re not getting kicked out if you fall short. I know that you’re asking, “Well if I’m in, I don’t need to work as hard.” Eh, don’t do that. You are part of God’s family. He welcomed you with open arms. So, how would you feel if you welcomed someone in your home and literally gave them access to everything you have; but, they sleep on your couch and don’t contribute to the family in any way? When you bring it up, they say, “I dusted a week ago!!” By giving your all to Him, is the biggest thank you you can give Him for the sacrifices He has given you.

So, if you get bogged down with “it’s hard”, it’s ok. Why? You’re not wrong. It is hard. But you can’t let hard define you, your life and certainly not your relationship with Christ. All things that are worth it are hard.

Love you all and see you Sunday,

Jennifer

Motivational Monday

By Jennifer Robbins

On July 22, 2024

In Motivational Monday, News and Announcements

Hey Friends! How are you doing this rainy Monday? Have you prayed today? If not, stop right now and pray! 🙂 Okay, are you good now? Perfect! Today, I want to talk about something that I wish was talked about more. Problem is, the person who would address the congregation is your pastor, right? Well, that’s exactly who and what I want to talk about today. The pastor.

As most of you know, I recently took on the position of secretary at our church. Because I work an 8-5 job, I do the secretary duties after work and on the weekends. So, I go to the church at odd times. 9 times out of 10, Scott is there. It doesn’t matter when I go. He is usually reading/studying for his sermon, writing, approving items within the church, attending meetings, going to hospitals/homes/funerals, being available when youth/Kreek Kids are meeting, etc. He works alot. And he works hard. I can imagine being a pastor is mentally, physically and emotionally exhausting at times (I can imagine being the wife of a pastor is exhausting as well). So how can we as a congregation support the pastor? Let’s talk about it.

First and absolute foremost, pray for him and his family. Listen, your pastor and their family are just people. They make mistakes. They are met with the same struggles you are met with on a daily basis. BUT, there is a WHOLE GROUP of people watching them. We hold him to a higher standard because “he’s the pastor”. 1 Timothy 3:2 says, “Therefore an overseer must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, sober minded, self controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach”. Does this end with, “and if you are all these things, you won’t struggle?” I don’t see that. Their hearts are just as heavy as yours. Knowing they have a whole group of people praying for them has to bring them great joy and comfort.

Second, talk to him about his sermon! I did a little research and on average, pastors spend 10-20 hours a week preparing for their sermon. I’m sure that varies and yes, I’m sure they have some already written in the filing cabinet. But, they DID write it at one point in time! They still have to freshen it up and deliver it in a way we understand and can retain it. So, talking to the pastor, asking questions, or thanking him is a way of letting him know you listened to his hard work. His work didn’t go unnoticed and he made a difference to you.

Third, tell him how God is growing in you. 1 Thessalonians 3:6-7 is Paul’s response hearing from a previous congregation. “But now that Timothy has come to us from you, and has brought us the good news of your faith and love and reported that you always remember us kindly and long to see us, as we long to see you- for this reason, brothers, in all our distress and affliction we have been comforted about you through your faith.” This report brought Paul great comfort and joy. It gave him a new breath. If it rejuvenated Paul. It feels good to know something you work hard at inspires and grows people, right? Take the time to tell your pastor.

Fourth, care for his wife. As a female in the church, if I have a problem, I would be more inclined to talk to Linda. Not because I can’t talk to Scott (because I do) but because she’s a female. If I feel that way, I know others do. So she deals with people’s issues just like the rest of us. When she married her husband, she also signed up to not only be a wife and mother but to be “the pastor’s wife”. She has the same struggles as you. She’s a servant of Christ. She’s a wife trying to honor her husband. She’s a mother who gets discouraged and struggles. She’s a church member…like you except not. Am I right? So take care of her because she’s the backbone of your pastor.

Lastly, follow his leadership. If you go to a church where this is a struggle for you, then you are at the wrong church. I know that might be a hot take but it’s the truth. That doesn’t mean that the pastor is doing something wrong, it means YOU need to find a church you trust the leadership. Why? Hebrews 13:17 says, “Obey your leaders and submit to them, for they are keeping watch over your souls, as those who will have to give an account. Let them do this with joy and not with groaning, for that would be of no advantage to you.” So you need to gladly accept their leadership.

You know, I have always said being a pastor has to be a hard profession. It’s not the preaching or the submission to God. It’s the people. It’s us. It’s me. It’s emotional, I’m sure. That has to take a toll on them mentally and emotionally. They carry your struggles, their families struggles and their own struggles. And do all of this being held to a higher standard by God and by you. That’s a lot.

So this week, thank your pastor and his wife. Let them know what they mean to you. Let your pastor know how he has impacted your life. In your daily prayers, make sure to include him and his family because I know he prays for yours.

Love you all,

Jennifer

Motivational Monday

By Jennifer Robbins

On July 15, 2024

In Motivational Monday, News and Announcements

Motivational Monday

Hey friends!! I hope your week last week was great and I hope this week is EVEN better. This week’s motivation was inspired by events from yesterday. 🙂 In these motivations, I always talk about prayer. Pastor Scott constantly preaches to pray. But why? What are the benefits? So, you know the drill…let’s talk about it.

Y’all. I need to be real for a minute. I woke up crabby yesterday. I was not in the best mood and I don’t know why. I’m sure you have those days. So, I decided I was going to skip church BUT I didn’t. The whole way to church, I was irritable about a situation I made MUCH worse in my head because of my mood. So, I just prayed about it on the way to church while listening to my christian station on Pandora. Then, I get to church looking for something to bring me out of my funk. Guess what? Nope. Still irritable.

Later in the day, I had some other things I had to do and my mood got better but I was still down (you know…irritable down if that makes sense). Then last night, I got a text message from Martha Fulgham. For those of you who don’t know Martha, please come to church and meet her. She is one of THE MOST genuine people you will ever meet. ANYWAY, her text was something about church but it turned into us texting back and forth. She literally changed my mood in that text exchange. I knew right then that was God. God sent her to lift my spirits. THEN, Debbie Ingram sent a text! Let me add, no one knew I was in a funk (and I don’t think it was noticeable). Debbie’s text was to just check one me because she thought she heard I was sick. Wow. Thank you God.

These texts happened within minutes of each other and I felt so loved and appreciated. It was overwhelming and these two ladies had no idea what their texts meant to me at that time. I knew right then, we had to talk about this today! I know God answered my morning and afternoon prayers.

We constantly preach prayer but let’s look at some benefits we might have trouble seeing.

Prayer can set or change the tone for the day

Listen, start your day thanking God you woke up and that He is there taking care of you today! God has given you an abundance of blessings. Sometimes we need to restore and repair our hearts. A great way to start is with a gratitude prayer.

Prayer helps you make better decisions

Listen, when we stop and pray about a situation, it gives us a moment of calmness. Calmness can bring clarity. Clarity comes from God through prayer. Ask God for clarity and guidance about situations you are struggling with at that moment.

Daily prayer keeps God front and center everyday. He is not just for Sundays

Fun fact, God wants you to seek Him all day everyday and not just on Sundays. If you pray daily, you will see Him more in your everyday life. If you lean on Him when you are hurting, you will feel his peace and comfort. When you ask him for help, He will guide you. But like anything else, you have to exercise this daily. Not just weekly.

Frequent communication builds a stronger bond

This is not a new concept, right? The more you talk to a friend, the better friend they become. Why? Because your conversations get deeper and the quality gets better and better. Then, you trust them with your feelings and emotions. God is no different.

Daily prayer shows the discipline of submitting your heart to Him

Let go. You HAVE to give it to Him. You HAVE to. I know, I know. It’s hard because we like controlling situations. But guess what? You are never really in control. You just feel like you are. But guess who IS in control? Yep…you guessed it!

Answered prayers are prayers prayed

I say this all the time but God knows you better than anyone. He knows when you are struggling. He’s waiting on you to ASK for help. Jennifer. If He knows I need help, why doesn’t He just help me? Good question! God wants your heart. The only way to achieve that is through daily prayer. So friends, if you are struggling, have yourself a little therapy session with God in the car like I did Sunday morning!

Opening your heart to Him transforms your heart

Prayers should not be robotic or transactional. It would be hard to make a friend with someone who’s a robot, right? Friendships are relationships. God is not interested in quantity but quality. He wants your heart. Prayer allows Him to work in you. He will transform your heart and bring you joy that you can’t find elsewhere. So, stop looking for joy in the wrong places!

We say all the time, prayer is your main communication to God. But prayer is so much more. You don’t have to pray pretty either! Trust me, I am a walking, talking truth bomb there. I just talk to God. He doesn’t care as long as you are genuine!

This week, practice daily prayer. If you already pray daily (woohoo!), ask Him for help with any needs you have. It’s ok to pray for you! If you are good this week (awesome) ask Him to strengthen your relationship with Him. You can never have a strong enough relationship with God. And lastly, if you feel like God is telling you to send a random text to someone, just do it. You never know when that person needs to hear from you…but God knows.

Love you all and see you next week,

Jennifer

2024 Men’s Event!

By Jennifer Robbins

On July 12, 2024

In Men's News and Events, News and Announcements

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Motivational Monday

By Jennifer Robbins

On July 8, 2024

In Motivational Monday, News and Announcements

July 8, 2024

Hey friends!! Just want to check in with you and see how your week was last week. I hope it is great but if it was less than that, don’t fret…we have this week. 🙂 It’s ok. Sometimes we have to take it a day at a time. Which is why I chose this week’s topic! What does the Bible say about being nice to others? As Christians, do we have to be nice all the time?

If you have read these motivations for any length of time, you probably know me well by now. I am christian who struggles daily; but, man do I love the Lord!! And for the record, I work on my struggles daily. I really do. But earlier this week, I had to give myself a talkin’ to about being nice. “Jennifer. That was ugly. Be nice.” Truth be told, I think I gave myself that talk a couple times last week. The main reason I told myself WHY I should be nice is because I’m christian. And that’s when it hit me…Jesus wasn’t always “nice”. Jesus was kind. Oftentimes as Christians, we equate the two as biblical kindness. But that isn’t true. So…let’s talk about it!

So first, let’s talk about being nice. The word “nice” is really generic. I had an English teacher that would lower your grade by 10 points if you used the word “nice” in any paper that was turned into her. If you look the word up in the dictionary the definition is, “pleasant; agreeable; satisfactory”. So in my mind, being nice can sometimes be fake. But, did you also know it comes from the Latin word nescius or nescience which means ignorant or ignorance. Also, did you know that no major Bible translation contains the word, “nice”? But I get it, sometimes, it’s easier to be “nice” than disagree with someone (notice I didn’t say argue).

Well, Jennifer, why is kindness so much different? GLAD YOU ASKED!!

True biblical kindness is really deep. It’s not topical or fake…ever. True kindness can only be obtained through abiding in Christ. If you look at a tree, you can’t have limbs without a trunk, right? Your faith is the trunk. Kindness is a branch. You can’t have kindness without faith.

Kindness isn’t always nice. I know, this is confusing. Listen, kindness is brave, fierce and daring. It’s fearless and selfless. It is not timid or frail. Can you be those things and be “nice” all the time? ABSOLUTELY not! Being kind is telling others things they don’t want to hear.

Let me give you an example. You have a friend who can be emotional at times (you can insert any emotion in this scenario and it will work). This friend, who is not married, is having an affair with a married person. There’s a whole lot wrong here, right? What do YOU do as their friend? DO you listen and say, “Whatever, it’s their life”? Do you say, “Well, they aren’t doing anything wrong because they aren’t married”? Or do you KNOW it’s wrong but don’t say anything because they will blow up or cry? Kindness is telling them they are wrong. Kindness is pointing out why it’s wrong and how that doesn’t glorify God. And guess what? That conversation is NOT going to be fun but you did it. And that makes you…kind. Even if they don’t see it. But I promise, they heard you and they will think about what you said even if they disagree.

You know you better than anyone, right? Even your spouse or best friend doesn’t know EVERYTHING about you. You have had thoughts and feelings that you shouldn’t. So, if you said and did everything you thought or felt, do you think people should show you absolute kindness? Of course not! That’s why we don’t act on all of our thoughts and feelings, right? So, why is God kind to you? You don’t have to act on those thoughts and feelings because He knows! He knows your heart.

This week, show kindness. I promise there are so many ways you can do this on a daily basis. You just have to look for it. By showing someone kindness, you are displaying the love of Christ.

I pray this week is a great week for all of you!

Love you all,

Jennifer

July 2024 Newsletter

By Jennifer Robbins

On July 3, 2024

In News and Announcements, Newsletters