Back to School Edition 1
Hey friends! For the next couple of weeks, I want to focus on our kids. If you don’t have children, no problem! I promise there is something for everyone in this series. Yep! You heard that right. A series. This is just too much for one week’s motivation. So let’s get this show on the road and let’s talk about it.
My first “big girl” job out of high school was a bank teller. This job taught me A LOT. They taught me how to quickly and accurately count money. I can still key numbers faster than type thanks to all the training I was provided. However, many things were not in training videos or sessions. For example, I learned VERY quickly that you do not mess with people’s money or kids unless you want to see a volatile reaction. As a 19 year old girl, watching people escalate quickly in their reactions was eye opening. As a 45 year old mom and wife, I completely understand this reaction.
When it comes to our kids, school is very similar. They learn A LOT. A lot is taught by teachers but a lot is taught by other students. And man, peer pressure is something else isn’t it. Sometimes peer pressure is good and sometimes…not so good. You see, this is where you come in. As parents, aunts, uncles, youth counselors, babysitters, etc. if the kid feels comfortable with you, they will talk to you. And I don’t mean they tell you hello. I mean, they will ask questions and confide in you. If you get there with a child, whether they are 2 or 18 or 30 (I know that’s not a child but still! 🙂), congratulations! You have fostered a good, safe environment for this kid. They trust you.
So, what does that mean exactly? They trust you to tell them the truth. And friends, sometimes the truth is not what they want to hear. And that’s ok. We don’t have to like everything. But as a christian, we need to make sure we hold those we love accountable. Which, if you have ever had to do with someone you love, it can be…sticky. Especially kids.
So, how can you get ahead of this? So glad you asked!
Start now bolstering their faith. You and I both know, our culture shifts quickly these days. And our children are who they target. It’s cliche (but accurate) that our kids are the future. If they are taught something is “normal”, they will just accept it as normal. And those people who are older than them who disagree with this new normal are just fuddy duddies! But if we teach them basic core truths, we are arming them against the “normals” that aren’t normal. And that’s not because Jennifer says it’s not normal, it’s because God says it’s not normal. In fact, it’s a sin.
What does bolstering their faith look like? It’s about giving them courage as they face peer pressure, how to remind them of their standing before God when they’re tempted to measure their worth by their performance, and how to instill humility so that they can be lifelong learners. It’s about how to love the people God will bring into their lives, and how to be a place of comfort, safety, and belonging for those people. Kinda like how YOU are to these kids. Right?
I’m not going to lie to you, this isn’t going to be easy. But who said life was easy?! But I hope it helps you think through how to approach the children in your life. And I hope it reminds you that, no matter how prepared you or these children in your life are to meet whatever this fall brings, the Lord is good, and he does good (Psalm 119:68), and he goes before you (Deuteronomy 31:8).
This week, please pray for our kids. Pray for their safety. Pray for courage. Pray they make good decisions. Pray for humility. Pray their relationship with God is good and whole and it stays that way. And pray for those adults who are in charge of these kids. They have such a hard job for so.many.reasons.
Love you all,
Jennifer








