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Motivational Monday- Advent Series

Hey friends!  Well, this is the week!  We are gearing up for the day we have been talking about this whole month.  CHRISTMAS!!  As a reminder, we will be having our Christmas Eve service at 6pm.  If you have never been, please come.  It is really beautiful, quiet and just a way to reflect on the reason for the season.  I know we are all super busy but if you can, please come.  And bring someone with you!

Today is the last day of our Advent series.  On Christmas Eve, we will light the Christ candle.  Let’s talk about it.

So as you have been following along in our series, all of the outside candles have been lit.  As a recap, we have lit the hope, peace, joy and love candle.  The last candle not lit is the center candle.  This candle is referred to as the Christ candle.  The Christ candle is in the center because the Christ candle reminds us that Jesus is the center of Christmas. The four outer candles are all important, but they only make sense with Jesus at the center. Yes, Christmas is a time of hope, peace, joy and love, but once again, this is only because of Jesus. 

Without Christ, there is no hope.  When we looked at hope in the advent season, we talked about the hope in Christ gets you through the waiting.  And we saw that hope in Christ does not disappoint. (Romans 5:5) All real hope in the world is centered on Christ.  You see, Christmas is all about hope because it’s all about Christ. God sent his Son into the world so you and I have hope. We have hope today because Christ is with us. We have hope tomorrow because Christ will never leave us. And we have hope for eternity, because Christ is coming back to take us to be with him forever.

Without Christ, there is no peace.  Jesus came to save us from our sins so that we could be restored with our relationship with God. When you trust Christ, you enjoy a wonderful peace in your heart, a personal peace that is unlike anything you can find in the world. I know what you are thinking here.  Jennifer, I have peace in my heart but what about the world?  Our world is severely lacking Jesus.  You can’t look at religious or political leaders for peace.  You have to seek the Prince of Peace.

Without Christ, there is no joy.  Jesus brings the joy of salvation.  Joy is sharing good news.  Joy leads to praise.  This is evident by the shepherds sharing the good news of Jesus’s birth.  Joy is so much deeper than happiness.  In fact, Christmas time can be an unhappy time for people.  But Jesus brings joy to help sustain us when we are feeling every emotion.  By having joy, that doesn’t mean you won’t ever be sad or mad.  It means in your saddest or maddest hour, God is with you.  And because He is with you, you experience true joy.

Without Christ, there is no real love.  God showed us an immense amount of love by sending us His only son to sacrifice.  The story of Christmas is all about love, because Christmas is all about Jesus. The Bible says: “In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only Son into the world, so that we might live through him. 10 In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins.” (1 John 4:9-10).  God is love, and all love comes from him. There is no real love without Christ.

A lot of people celebrate Christmas and they are not christian.  What they love about it is the lights, the decorations, the gift giving and receiving, and just the overall feeling they have during this time.  But you want all those things with the Christ part.  Kinda like wanting hope, peace, joy and love.  I think most people genuinely do want those things.  But Christ is the center, and we only enjoy the good things of Christmas because of him.

I want to wish you and your family a Merry Christmas.

Love you all,

Jennifer


Motivational Monday- Advent Series

Hey friends!  Today I wanted to continue our series on Advent.  This past Sunday we lit the Joy candle and next will be Love.  In our Motivational Monday’s, we talk about joy and love frequently but how does this play a part in the Christmas season? Well, let’s talk about it.

The third candle to be lit is the joy candle or also known as the “Shepherd’s Candle”.  I’ve always been drawn to the shepherds in the Bible (probably because I’m just a regular person).  If we look at this from the sheep’s perspective, what do they have that can defend them from predators?  These fluffy, white poofs don’t have sharp teeth.  They are really sweet and surprisingly intelligent.  That’s why they flock together…for survival.  But, if something comes after the flock that wants a snack, one of them is not going to win.  They honestly depend solely on something or someone to protect them.  The shepherd.

The shepherds were just ordinary people like me and you.  The night of Jesus’s birth, they were guarding the sheep from predators.  

“And in the same region there were shepherds out in the field, keeping watch over their flock by night. And an angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were filled with great fear. And the angel said to them, “Fear not, for behold, I bring you good news of great joy that will be for all the people. For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord. And this will be a sign for you: you will find a baby wrapped in swaddling cloths and lying in a manger.” And suddenly there was with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host praising God and saying,

‘Glory to God in the highest,
    and on earth peace among those with whom he is pleased!’

When the angels went away from them into heaven, the shepherds said to one another, “Let us go over to Bethlehem and see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has made known to us.” And they went with haste and found Mary and Joseph, and the baby lying in a manger. And when they saw it, they made known the saying that had been told them concerning this child. And all who heard it wondered at what the shepherds told them. But Mary treasured up all these things, pondering them in her heart. And the shepherds returned, glorifying and praising God for all they had heard and seen, as it had been told them.”  Luke 2:8-20

God chose these ordinary people to share the news of His son’s birth first.  Not kings.  While the difference is noticeable, it fits well with everything else we’ve seen about Jesus’ birth. Mary and Joseph didn’t stand out from the crowd. Again, they were plain ole people.  Bethlehem was a small, unremarkable town. Jesus’ first cradle was a feeding trough. The list goes on.

His birth brought…joy.  Of course, it’s a baby!  All babies bring joy.  This is true but His birth is different.  He was bringing us salvation.

And does joy bring?  Love.

The fourth (but not last) candle is the Love candle or the “Angel’s Candle”.  An angel is a created being and not humans who passed away and became angels (Hebrews 1:14).  They are messengers (Messengers: The word “angel” means messenger. They bring God’s words, instructions, and warnings, often appearing as men (Genesis 18, Acts 10), servants (Psalm 148, Isaiah 6, Revelation 4-5), protectors:, as seen with Elisha (2 Kings 6) and Paul (Acts 27), agents of judgment (2 Samuel 24, Acts 12), involved in Jesus’ life, fighters (Daniel 10, Revelation 12), and play eschatological role (Matthew 24, Revelation 16). 

With all that scripture (and that’s just a smidgen), I think it’s safe to say, they are pretty important.

God sent His angels four different times to prepare people for Jesus’ arrival. In Luke 1:5-25, the angel Gabriel appeared to Zechariah the priest to tell him that he would have a son (John the Baptist) whom God would use to prepare people for Jesus’ coming. Later, Gabriel came to Mary in Luke 1:26-38 to prepare her to become Jesus’ mother. Shortly thereafter, Joseph received a visit from an angel who told him about Mary’s miraculous pregnancy (Matthew 1:18-25). On the night Jesus was born, a whole company of angels announced His birth to a stunned group of shepherds (Luke 2:8-20).

So the angels brought the message of love…Jesus.  The Bible affirms that and that his sending Jesus into the world was an act of perfect love (1 John 4:8-12). Jesus loved people, and yet he didn’t try to always be nice to people. Sometimes, he pushed people to consider what they really believed if they really wanted to follow him (Mark 10:17-27). Sometimes, he got them to admit their mistakes to see how much they needed God (John 4:1-42). Throughout his ministry, he maintained that the key to finding God was not to “follow your heart” but to follow him and obey his teachings.

This week, I want to challenge you to see the story of Jesus’ arrival in a fresh way. Pray that He will show you aspects you haven’t seen before and help you to see the familiar in a fresh light. 

By His grace may our joy and love grow as the day we celebrate Jesus’ birth draws near.

Love you all,

Jennifer



Motivational Monday- Advent Series

Hey friends!  Wasn’t the Cantata fantastic?  Weren’t able to make it?  No big deal!  Hop on over to facebook and it was all recorded.  Amy, the choir and all of those playing instrument’s…*chef’s kiss*.

Today, I wanted to continue our series on Advent.  We have already lit the candle representing hope and peace.  We talk about hope and peace a lot in our Motivational Mondays.  But today, my focus is hope and peace at Christmas.  So, let’s talk about it.

The candle of “Hope” or also referred to as the “Prophet’s Candle”.  This candle symbolizes the anticipation of the coming Messiah and the hope that He brings to the world. The Scripture readings and prayers the Hartwigs read focus on the prophecies in the Old Testament about the promised Savior and the expectation of His arrival. Like the prophets in the Old Testament, we hope for a Messiah to save us from the sin in the world (Isaiah 9:6-7). We anticipate our Savior’s arrival. As the “prophecy candle,” this candle assures us we can have hope that God will fulfill the prophecies declared in the Old Testament about Jesus. Hope doesn’t disappoint us (Romans 5:5). 

I feel like in this day in age, there are times we all feel the evil around us.  I know this is supposed to be motivating and that sounds pretty pessimistic.  But, I think what this candle also represents is knowing He is coming back.  And when He comes back, we will be in heaven.  We won’t endure what this world has coming.  We will be chillin’ with the homies.

And what does hope bring?  Peace.

Luke 2:14 says, “Peace on earth”.  Jesus brought about peace, in the most unexpected ways, when he arrived. The Jews wanted a rebellion. They wanted their Savior to overturn the oppressive rule of the Romans and bring about peace in a violent way. But Jesus had something else in mind. Jesus brings us peace in a number of ways.

  1. He gives us inner peace.  Because of his work on the cross, we have a chance to receive salvation and be indwelled by the Holy Spirit. This grants us an inner peace (John 14:27). 
  2. We have peace with others. We put aside our differences (Galatians 3:28), especially with other believers, because we belong to the same family. We have the same purpose: to let others know about the peace of Christ. 

Peace from God, biblical peace, allows us to trust in God’s promises (Proverbs 3:5), through restful, tranquil faith, despite the dark, scary world around us. 

This week, I want to challenge you to reflect on the hope and peace we have been given because of the birth of Jesus.  I think it is so important that we stop and reflect on the reason for the season.  I know we hear that statement frequently but I think it’s easy to get caught up in decorations, food and gifts.  Christmas really is a beautiful time of the year.  While you are in the store shopping for a loved one or just buying groceries, use this time to talk to the cashier about their plans for Christmas.  Listen to them and try to weave the true meaning of Christmas into the conversation.  You never know if you are the reason they get to know Jesus.

Love you all and see you next week,

Jennifer

Motivational Monday- Advent

Hey friends!  I hope you had a GREAT Thanksgiving.  I want to report that I NOW have up all my inside Christmas decorations.  I just need to work on the outside but I’ll get to it.  This season, I wanted to dive deep into the advent season.  Do you know why we light candles?  Where did this all start?  What do these candles mean?  Well, let’s talk about it.

I grew up in a christian, PCA Presbyterian household.  During the advent season, a family would go to the front of the church, read some verses and an explanation of the verses and they would sit down.  The verses and the explanation told you what the candles represent but why do we do this?  Was this in the Bible?

To answer it plainly, it is not in the Bible and when it started, is unknown.  This appears to be a symbolic and purposeful practice the church started to represent the birth of Jesus.  I would equate this idea to Lent.  Meaning, there is nothing in the Bible but it is based on Biblical principles and events with it starting 40 days before Easter.  Personally, I love honoring the Lord with these practices because it helps me to remember the reason behind the season.  

Thanks to my google research, the word Adevent comes from the Latin word adventus.  Adventus means “coming” ot “arrival”.  It appears Advent celebrations started as early as 380 AD.  But the first Advent candles and wreaths were used in Germany in 1839.  The idea started spreading to other churches (probably because it was a cool idea!) and they adopted it into practice.  The wreath is an Evergreen.  If you think about what is alive and green in the dead of winter would be an Evergreen.  This represents that God is eternal, and in Him, we too have everlasting life.  Being a wreath, there is no beginning and no end.  Representing that God always has been and will always be.

There are five candles.  Our church will light a candle every Sunday leading up to Christmas with the fifth candle being lit on Christmas Eve.  The candles represent hope, peace, joy and love.  The fifth candle is Christ candle.  The candles are symbolic and encourage us to remember the first coming of Christ and to look forward to His Second Coming.

Each week as the candles are lit, the flame points to Jesus being the Light of the World.  His first coming shines in the darkness, lighting the path to a relationship with God with God the Father,  It illuminates His plan and purpose through the Holy Spirit.  Now, we wait for His Second Coming where he will light the world with His glory (Revelations 22:5).  John 1:4-5 says, “In him was life, and the life was the light of men. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.” 

This is what the Advent season is all about.  Celebrating the light in the darkness.

What a beautiful representation and visual reminder why we celebrate this season.

I am just a simple girl from Alabama who doesn’t like to sound uneducated.  But, I don’t think I really understood the beauty of the candles and wreath.  The light from the candle.  The warmth.  So before I dove into the meaning of each candle, I thought it was important to discuss the why behind the process.

This week, I want you to reflect on the light and warmth from Jesus.  How has He been your light in the darkness?  How can you spread that light to others?

Love you all and see you next week,

Jennifer


Motivational Monday

Hey friends!  A few more days until Christmas is here!!  By now, HOPEFULLY your stress level is down and you are pumped to celebrate the birth of Jesus.  I know I am.  I can’t wait to sit back, drink my coffee and watch the fam open their gifts.

Yesterday, we spent Christmas with Jon’s side of the family for the first time since COVID.  There are a lot of reasons why we haven’t seen each other, but at the end of the day, it was easier to not get together at this time of year (we all have to drive to a central location to see each other).  This year, Jon said, “Nope.  We are getting together!”  So we did.  And it was so nice!  It was low key, easy, full of laughter and love.  Jon, Logan and I realized how much we missed them and just how much we love them!  We always loved them but you know the saying…absence makes the heart grow fonder.

This got me thinking about the season.  For most of us, this season is about love.  But what about those who are hurting?  I can see where some find this time of year as the most loveless time of year.  Where do you find love in the middle of this season where everyone is happy?  Let’s talk about it.

No matter how you feel about the Christmas season, God’s Word gives us reason to rejoice when we consider the meaning behind this holiday.  Scripture tells us that God loved ALL of us (yes, He loves those who don’t love Him) so much that he sent His only Son to save us.  Clearly this was the plan all throughout history because it was prophesied MANY times throughout the Old Testament.  When Jesus was born, the path was always to the cross where He would die to save us.  If that doesn’t define love, let me give you a few other reasons.  🙂

God is love.  If you are not familiar with God defining love, this statement might be confusing.  The Bible tells us that God is perfect.  He is patient, good and righteous.  He is not loving…he is love.  The miracle of Christmas is from the great love He has for us.  “So we have come to know and to believe the love that God has for us. God is love, and whoever abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him.”  1 John 4:16.  

To show us, Jesus came to show us God’s love.  We all are separated from God by sin because only He is perfect.  We couldn’t fix our relationship with Him because it wasn’t possible and He knew it.  He knew He had to intervene by sending Jesus.  This was the only way we could receive salvation.  Christmas is the time of year we remember Jesus’s arrival.  “but God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”  Romans 5:8

Because of Jesus, we can show God’s love to others.  As we have talked in previous weeks, it’s easy to get caught up in the gift giving aspect.  But what this time of year should tell us is to love others as God has loved us.  We need to be ready to love those who feel alone or discouraged.  It’s the time of year where we encourage others to experience the gift we all received from God.  “We love because he first loved us.”1 John 4:19

Lastly, God’s love is eternal.  This season, if you are hurting, it is most likely over rejection, bitterness or heartbreak.  God will never let you down.  He will never break a promise, lessen His love or let you go.  God gave us Jesus which is HUGE.  Do you think if someone gave you their only Son would revoke their love from you?  Nope.  THIS is something we can all rejoice in this Christmas and all throughout the year!  “So now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love.”  1 Corinthians 13:13

So friends, this holiday season, remember those who need extra love.  I know some say they don’t want or need love, but you know they are hurting.  If you feel like you can’t show them love by inviting them over or giving them a meal, then just pray for them.  You don’t have to tell them OR maybe you do want to tell them.  If you are someone who is hurting this season and you need/want to feel God’s love, please come to our service tomorrow night at 6pm.  It’s always short and we don’t care what you wear!  What I can promise you is people will be smiling and happy.  We will introduce ourselves but we won’t be annoying, I promise!  If you want to sit next to me, I always sit on the right side as you walk in.  I am a little more than halfway up and I sit on the vent.  🙂  It’s my unofficial assigned seat.  No matter what, please come and feel His love this season.  

Merry Christmas,

Jennifer



Motivational Monday

Hey friends!!  Did y’all see the Cantata?  Listen, I love that our little church in Montevallo puts on a BEAUTIFUL show every Christmas.  The adult and kids choir, the musicians and the sound booth really make it all come to life.  But none of those things would happen without Amy.  It is so apparent how much time and dedication she puts into the music ministry of our church.  She is appreciated more than she knows.  

Yesterday, Jon and I had the opportunity to light the Peace Candle on the second week of advent.  And it got me thinking about peace in general and what that really means.  So let’s talk about it.

Today, I had to go to the eye doctor for a checkup.  As I was sitting in the waiting room, I was sitting next to an elderly woman who was waiting on her husband who was seeing the doctor.  When he came out, she got up and walked to him.  She held his jacket out for him and then proceeded to help him put it on.  Then, she quietly asked him if he wanted it buttoned up and he said, “Just one button.”  She quietly buttoned just one button and they left.  I loved everything about this situation.  The love they had for one another.  How she helped him and how he allowed it.  It was obvious they were content.  Peaceful if you will…

You see, to me, peace isn’t just the absence of conflict or animosity.  Peace is also the presence of joyful tranquility and a richness of interpersonal communication.  So what is the key to peace?

Five times in the New Testament, God is called, “the God of Peace” (Romans 15:33; 16:20; Philippians 4:9; 1 Thessalonians 5:23; Hebrews 13:20). Jesus said, “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you” (John 14:27). And Paul said, “[Jesus] himself is our peace” (Ephesians 2:14).  So if you want peace but not God or Jesus, then that is not possible.  If you want peace to rule your life, then God has to rule in your life.  He IS your peace.  

What connects you to God and His peace?   Romans 15:13: “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing.”  Believing.  In, by and through believing the promises bought and PAID FOR by the blood of Jesus.

If you want peace, the foundation has to be God.  Nowadays, our minds race with thoughts.  It could be because of Christmas holidays, money or just a lot of past mistakes.  Our minds take us places where peace can be scarce.  Peace inwardly and outwardly is based on your relationship with God.  Are you friends?  Do you talk to Him?  Do you glorify Him?  Do you admire Him?  Do you thank Him?  When you do these things, not only are you glorifying Him but you are thinking about forgiveness, blessings and having an open and receptive heart. Romans 5:1: “Therefore, since we have been justified by faith [by believing], we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ.” Having been justified by faith…believing, trusting him and all of His promises to me…I have peace.  

So, it doesn’t matter if you are Baptist or Methodist or Presbyterian.  It doesn’t matter if you volunteer at the local soup kitchen or if you give ALL your money to the needy.  Peace comes solely by faith.  When faith happens, we are united with Him and His righteousness on this side of heaven.  That unitedness is…peace.  Peace with God.

Are you at peace?  

Love you all,

Jennifer

Motivational Monday

Hey Friends!  IT’S FINALLY HERE!!!  December!  Christmas!  THE CANTATA!!!  WOOHOO!  Seriously, the Cantata is THIS SUNDAY.  Listen, we might be a small church but the Cantata sure is mighty.  Amy, the choir, those playing instruments, and guys in the sound booth do such a great job every.single.year.  Please go if you have never been.  Please go if you have been!

When I first mentioned December and Christmas, what was your response?  Were you happy, sad, or stressed?  I want to go down the stressed road today.  Why are you stressed?  I am going to go out on a limb and say it’s finances.  Am I right?  Let’s talk about it.

When Jon and I got married, we were broke.  And when I say broke, we were broke.  And then BAM!  I got pregnant with Logan.  God planned him perfectly but Jon and I were not prepared.  So after a year of daycare, diapers, formula and all of our other bills that we couldn’t afford, we were bankrupt.  Literally.  The house was in foreclosure.  The cars were getting repo’d.  It was bad.  We had no choice but to declare bankruptcy.  

We wanted to keep everything we had (because we couldn’t afford NOT to).  So we filed a chapter 13 which means we had to pay it all back within 5 years.  And guess what?  We paid it back in 3 years!  But there were a million tears shed.  Lots of hours worked.  And we became a connoisseur of hotdogs.  😏  

When Christmas rolled around during those years, my stomach would hurt because of stress.  I wasn’t worried about Jon and I.  I mean we knew our situation and we just dealt with it.  But Logan.  We loved that little boy more than ANYTHING and we wanted to give him the world (still do).  We never wanted him to know we were struggling.  So it was a facade.  I was so thankful for our families picking up any pieces we fell short on when it came to gift giving.  We got through it.  Logan was not impacted negatively.  And we are better financial stewards because of this time.  So I wouldn’t change it.

So why do we give gifts at Christmas?  I mean hello!  It’s not our birthday, it’s Jesus’s birthday.  And the last I checked, I don’t get gifts on my husband’s birthday.  

I think what is important to remember when giving gifts is the meaning behind it.  2 Corinthians 9:15 says, “Thanks be to God for his inexpressible gift!”  he wasn’t talking about that Bath and Body Works set you were eyeing.  He’s talking about His son.  The very essence of Christmas is about generosity, kindness, grace and giving.  God gives God for the enjoyment of his people, whom he saves by giving his Son to suffer. That’s beautiful. It is the heart of Christmas.

Second, we give to Christ.  Now, I want to be clear here.  God does not want you to buy anything.  I mean, he has zero use for a Lowes gift card.  He’s not interested in you trading anything with Him.  Seriously, He gave you His son.  You can’t compete with that (and He doesn’t want you to!).  But what He does want…your time.  Commitment from you.  Yes, I know it’s hard and there are a million reasons why “you can’t today”.  But stop and think about what gift would be equal to what He did for you.  I’ll wait.  Spoiler alert!  There’s not one.  You can make time for Him.

Lastly, we need to give in the right mindset.  2 Corinthians 8:2, “for in a severe test of affliction, their abundance of joy and their extreme poverty have overflowed in a wealth of generosity on their part.”  One more…Hebrews 13:16, “Do not neglect to do good and to share what you have, for such sacrifices are pleasing to God.”  When giving gifts, you need to do it in the mindset of giving back to Christ.  That is the gift of trust, hope, admiration, joy and affection.  

So, if you are worried about gift giving at Christmas, please hear me when I say, STOP.  I promise God did not give you His son for you to worry about gifts.  Christmas is truly not about financial hardship.  Your children will love you if you can’t afford that XBox.  And if you can’t afford it, that doesn’t make you less of a parent.  And it sure doesn’t mean you love them less.  

So, if you are someone feeling this stress, please pray.  I would pray specifically for peace, love and joy in your life and for your family.  If you are someone who is more fortunate, remember you are blessed.  Your generosity can positively impact someone’s life forever.  Can you remember a time someone was generous to you?  You have never forgotten it or how it made you feel.  That feeling needs to be shared because it gushes love, joy, trust, and hope…like God.  Like what Christmas should be.

Love you all, 

Jennifer



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