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Motivational Monday

Motivational Monday

Hey friends!!  I hope your week last week was great and I hope this week is EVEN better.  This week’s motivation was inspired by events from yesterday.  🙂  In these motivations, I always talk about prayer.  Pastor Scott constantly preaches to pray.  But why?  What are the benefits?  So, you know the drill…let’s talk about it.

Y’all.  I need to be real for a minute.  I woke up crabby yesterday.  I was not in the best mood and I don’t know why.  I’m sure you have those days.  So, I decided I was going to skip church BUT I didn’t.  The whole way to church, I was irritable about a situation I made MUCH worse in my head because of my mood.  So, I just prayed about it on the way to church while listening to my christian station on Pandora.  Then, I get to church looking for something to bring me out of my funk.  Guess what?  Nope.  Still irritable.  

Later in the day, I had some other things I had to do and my mood got better but I was still down (you know…irritable down if that makes sense).  Then last night, I got a text message from Martha Fulgham.  For those of you who don’t know Martha, please come to church and meet her.  She is one of THE MOST genuine people you will ever meet.  ANYWAY, her text was something about church but it turned into us texting back and forth.  She literally changed my mood in that text exchange.  I knew right then that was God.  God sent her to lift my spirits.  THEN, Debbie Ingram sent a text!  Let me add, no one knew I was in a funk (and I don’t think it was noticeable).  Debbie’s text was to just check one me because she thought she heard I was sick.  Wow.  Thank you God.

These texts happened within minutes of each other and I felt so loved and appreciated.  It was overwhelming and these two ladies had no idea what their texts meant to me at that time.  I knew right then, we had to talk about this today!  I know God answered my morning and afternoon prayers.

We constantly preach prayer but let’s look at some benefits we might have trouble seeing.

Prayer can set or change the tone for the day

Listen, start your day thanking God you woke up and that He is there taking care of you today!  God has given you an abundance of blessings.  Sometimes we need to restore and repair our hearts.  A great way to start is with a gratitude prayer.

Prayer helps you make better decisions

Listen, when we stop and pray about a situation, it gives us a moment of calmness.  Calmness can bring clarity.  Clarity comes from God through prayer.  Ask God for clarity and guidance about situations you are struggling with at that moment.  

Daily prayer keeps God front and center everyday.  He is not just for Sundays

Fun fact, God wants you to seek Him all day everyday and not just on Sundays.  If you pray daily, you will see Him more in your everyday life.  If you lean on Him when you are hurting, you will feel his peace and comfort.  When you ask him for help, He will guide you.  But like anything else, you have to exercise this daily.  Not just weekly.  

Frequent communication builds a stronger bond

This is not a new concept, right?  The more you talk to a friend, the better friend they become.  Why?  Because your conversations get deeper and the quality gets better and better.  Then, you trust them with your feelings and emotions.  God is no different.

Daily prayer shows the discipline of submitting your heart to Him

Let go.  You HAVE to give it to Him.  You HAVE to.  I know, I know.  It’s hard because we like controlling situations.  But guess what?  You are never really in control.  You just feel like you are.  But guess who IS in control?  Yep…you guessed it!

Answered prayers are prayers prayed

I say this all the time but God knows you better than anyone.  He knows when you are struggling.  He’s waiting on you to ASK for help.  Jennifer.  If He knows I need help, why doesn’t He just help me?  Good question!  God wants your heart.  The only way to achieve that is through daily prayer.  So friends, if you are struggling, have yourself a little therapy session with God in the car like I did Sunday morning!

Opening your heart to Him transforms your heart

Prayers should not be robotic or transactional.  It would be hard to make a friend with someone who’s a robot, right?  Friendships are relationships.  God is not interested in quantity but quality.  He wants your heart.  Prayer allows Him to work in you.  He will transform your heart and bring you joy that you can’t find elsewhere.  So, stop looking for joy in the wrong places!

We say all the time, prayer is your main communication to God.  But prayer is so much more.  You don’t have to pray pretty either!  Trust me, I am a walking, talking truth bomb there.  I just talk to God.  He doesn’t care as long as you are genuine!

This week, practice daily prayer.  If you already pray daily (woohoo!), ask Him for help with any needs you have.  It’s ok to pray for you!  If you are good this week (awesome) ask Him to strengthen your relationship with Him.  You can never have a strong enough relationship with God.  And lastly, if you feel like God is telling you to send a random text to someone, just do it.  You never know when that person needs to hear from you…but God knows.

Love you all and see you next week,

Jennifer

Motivational Monday

July 8, 2024

Hey friends!!  Just want to check in with you and see how your week was last week.  I hope it is great but if it was less than that, don’t fret…we have this week.  🙂  It’s ok.  Sometimes we have to take it a day at a time.  Which is why I chose this week’s topic!  What does the Bible say about being nice to others?  As Christians, do we have to be nice all the time? 

If you have read these motivations for any length of time, you probably know me well by now.  I am christian who struggles daily; but, man do I love the Lord!!  And for the record, I work on my struggles daily.  I really do.  But earlier this week, I had to give myself a talkin’ to about being nice.  “Jennifer.  That was ugly.  Be nice.”  Truth be told, I think I gave myself that talk a couple times last week.   The main reason I told myself WHY I should be nice is because I’m christian.  And that’s when it hit me…Jesus wasn’t always “nice”.  Jesus was kind.  Oftentimes as Christians, we equate the two as biblical kindness.  But that isn’t true.  So…let’s talk about it!

So first, let’s talk about being nice.  The word “nice” is really generic.  I had an English teacher that would lower your grade by 10 points if you used the word “nice” in any paper that was turned into her.  If you look the word up in the dictionary the definition is, “pleasant; agreeable; satisfactory”.  So in my mind, being nice can sometimes be fake.  But, did you also know it comes from the Latin word nescius or nescience which means ignorant or ignorance.  Also, did you know that no major Bible translation contains the word, “nice”?  But I get it, sometimes, it’s easier to be “nice” than disagree with someone (notice I didn’t say argue).

Well, Jennifer, why is kindness so much different?  GLAD YOU ASKED!!

True biblical kindness is really deep.  It’s not topical or fake…ever.  True kindness can only be obtained through abiding in Christ.  If you look at a tree, you can’t have limbs without a trunk, right?  Your faith is the trunk.   Kindness is a branch.  You can’t have kindness without faith.  

Kindness isn’t always nice.  I know, this is confusing.  Listen, kindness is brave, fierce and daring.  It’s fearless and selfless.  It is not timid or frail.  Can you be those things and be “nice” all the time?  ABSOLUTELY not!  Being kind is telling others things they don’t want to hear.  

Let me give you an example.  You have a friend who can be emotional at times (you can insert any emotion in this scenario and it will work).  This friend, who is not married, is having an affair with a married person.  There’s a whole lot wrong here, right?  What do YOU do as their friend?  DO you listen and say, “Whatever, it’s their life”?  Do you say, “Well, they aren’t doing anything wrong because they aren’t married”?  Or do you KNOW it’s wrong but don’t say anything because they will blow up or cry?  Kindness is telling them they are wrong.  Kindness is pointing out why it’s wrong and how that doesn’t glorify God.  And guess what?  That conversation is NOT going to be fun but you did it.  And that makes you…kind.  Even if they don’t see it. But I promise, they heard you and they will think about what you said even if they disagree.

You know you better than anyone, right?  Even your spouse or best friend doesn’t know EVERYTHING about you.  You have had thoughts and feelings that you shouldn’t.  So, if you said and did everything you thought or felt, do you think people should show you absolute kindness?  Of course not!  That’s why we don’t act on all of our thoughts and feelings, right?  So, why is God kind to you?  You don’t have to act on those thoughts and feelings because He knows!  He knows your heart.  

This week, show kindness.  I promise there are so many ways you can do this on a daily basis.  You just have to look for it.  By showing someone kindness, you are displaying the love of Christ.  

I pray this week is a great week for all of you!

Love you all,

Jennifer

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