Tag: right and wrong Page 1 of 3

Motivational Monday

Kindness is one of those gifts that never goes out of style. It doesn’t require wealth, special talents, or perfect circumstances. Anyone can offer kindness. A smile, a word of encouragement, a note of appreciation, a helping hand, or simply taking the time to listen can make a tremendous difference in someone’s life.

As Christians, kindness is not simply a suggestion—it is part of who we are called to be. Galatians 5:22-23 lists kindness as one of the fruits of the Spirit. In other words, as we grow closer to Christ, kindness should become more evident in our lives. The world can be quick to judge, criticize, and divide. The church should be a place where people encounter grace, compassion, and genuine care.

I will NEVER forget how welcomed I felt when I came to Spring Creek.  The reason I decided to visit was because of Jack Coleman, who at the time was 12ish.  He was Logan’s best friend and I was so impressed by his testimony.  Once I visited, I remember everyone welcoming me and just being so kind.  Once I found my seat in a pew (which I am sure I took someone’s unofficial assigned seat…if you know you know), Hannah and Ben Locks came right over and just started talking to me!  Listen, impressed is not the word.  ALL of these kids were so kind and treated me like one of the crowd.  I knew instantly I loved this place.  To this day, I have never forgotten how I felt and that says something.

One of the reasons I was inspired to write this was a conversation I had a couple of weeks ago.  I was getting a christian tattoo by a christian tattoo artist.  In fact, I drove a couple hours to get tattooed by him.  While he tattoos you, he asks A LOT of thought provoking questions about your relationship with the Lord.  We got into a deep discussion about christians being unkind.  Sure, this was a blanket statement and of course, not everyone is unkind.  But for a religion that preaches to not judge but to hold people accountable; love unconditionally; stay humble; and, to be kind we, collectively, struggle with that.  And when I say we, I am NOT excluding me!  Nonchristians look at our behavior and decide if this is what they want to be associated with.  Which is why in these motivations, I try to drive home that the church is made up of imperfect people.  

One of the reasons kindness is so important is because we rarely know the battles others are facing. The person greeting you on Sunday morning may be carrying a burden you cannot see. The friend who always seems cheerful may be struggling privately. The visitor walking through the church doors may be nervous, lonely, or searching for hope (like me!). A simple act of kindness may not solve their problems, but it can remind them that they are seen, valued, and loved.

Proverbs 16:24 tells us, “Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.” What a beautiful reminder that our words have power. We can use them to build up or tear down, to encourage or discourage. Every conversation is an opportunity to reflect the love of Christ.

Kindness is especially important within the church family. We are a group of imperfect people serving a perfect Savior. We won’t always agree on every decision, preference, or opinion. There will be times when misunderstandings happen. Yet Scripture calls us to treat one another with patience, compassion, and grace. Ephesians 4:32 says, “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” Imagine how much stronger our churches would be if we approached every interaction with that verse in mind.

Jesus Himself modeled kindness throughout His ministry. He welcomed those whom others overlooked. He spent time with people society rejected. He showed compassion to the sick, the hurting, and the brokenhearted. Everywhere He went, people experienced not only His power but also His love. As followers of Christ, we are called to do the same. We may not perform miracles, but we can certainly offer kindness.

Kindness is often found in the small things. It may be checking on a neighbor, sitting with someone who is alone, writing a card, offering a prayer, or simply choosing patience when frustration would be easier. These moments may seem insignificant, but God has a way of using small acts to accomplish great things.

This week, look for opportunities to be intentionally kind. Not because someone has earned it. Not because it is convenient. Simply because Christ has been kind to us. Let us be known not only for what we believe, but for how we treat people.

You never know how far a kind word, a compassionate heart, or a simple act of grace may travel. You may be the answer to someone’s prayer simply by choosing kindness.

I love you all and I hope you have a blessed week!

Jennifer

Motivational Monday

Yesterday at church we honored graduates, and I couldn’t help but think about how exciting — and honestly a little scary — new beginnings can be.

Graduation is more than a ceremony. It’s a reminder that life moves in seasons. One chapter closes, another begins, and suddenly you find yourself standing in unfamiliar territory wondering what comes next. But isn’t that how so much of life works? We all face moments where God gently nudges us forward — into new opportunities, new responsibilities, new relationships, or even a completely new outlook on life.

The truth is, every single one of us is standing at the edge of some kind of “next chapter.” Maybe yours isn’t marked by a cap and gown. Maybe it’s a fresh start after a hard season. Maybe it’s healing. Maybe it’s stepping into a new job, rebuilding your confidence, or simply learning to trust God again one day at a time. New beginnings don’t always come with applause and celebration. Sometimes they arrive quietly, disguised as small steps of faith.

And if we’re being honest, new beginnings can feel overwhelming. We like certainty. We like plans. We want GPS directions for our entire future. But God often works differently. He rarely shows us the whole staircase — He simply asks us to trust Him with the next step.

Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.” — Proverbs 3:5-6

Sometimes we spend so much time looking backward that we miss the new thing God is trying to do right in front of us.

“Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?” — Isaiah 43:18-19

God specializes in fresh starts. He opens doors we never expected, strengthens us when we feel unqualified, and reminds us that growth almost always begins outside of our comfort zone. The graduates we honored today may not know exactly where life will take them, but they do not walk alone — and neither do we.

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” — Jeremiah 29:11

So whether you’re walking across a graduation stage, starting over, stepping out in faith, or simply trying again after a difficult season, remember this: God is already in your tomorrow. Walk boldly into your next chapter. The same God who brought you this far will continue leading the way.

Love you all and see you Sunday,

Jennifer



Motivational Monday

Hey friends!   

As most of you know, I have one son.  But what you don’t know is I have 6 other “kinda” children.  They are the closest thing to my own child I can get without me actually giving birth.  They are my nieces and nephews.  This upcoming weekend, I get to watch one of my nephews stand at the altar and say two simple words… “I do.” And isn’t it funny how something so small can carry so much weight?

I have been married for a million and one years now (just kidding!  It’s been 23.5 years…).  I remember my own wedding.  We got married at the courthouse.  Why did we choose the courthouse?  Well, I was marrying a guy who really didn’t like to be the center of attention and I didn’t see spending “all that money”.  We were going to have a small wedding but then it hit me.  No matter the amount of spend, big or small, the end result is all the same.  We still say our “I do’s” the exact same.

What I didn’t know at that time is that marriage isn’t built on one “I do.”  I had no idea the roller coaster of marriage would be.  And it’s not that we don’t get along.  In fact, when we are in sync we can be dynamic.  We really are each other’s half.  But it’s buying a house, money problems, having a child, losing a loved one, making mistakes, etc.  It’s all the time, we could have said, “I’m done” but we continued to choose each other.  Marriage is built on a thousand little “I still do’s.”

It’s choosing patience when you’re tired, grace when it’s undeserved, and love when it would be easier to walk away.  Marriage is hard.  Not because you don’t love someone enough.  Sometimes you just think the grass is greener on the other side.  You know, the side you really don’t know but you made up in your head.

And if we’re being honest… that doesn’t just apply to marriage. That applies to our faith too.

Joshua 24:15 says, “Choose this day whom you will serve…”  Not just once. Not just when life feels easy. But daily. Every single day, we’re given the opportunity to say: “God, I still choose You.” Even when we don’t understand. Even when we’re weary. Even when life doesn’t look like we thought it would. Because real love—whether it’s in marriage, in faith, or in life—isn’t a one-time decision. It’s a daily surrender. A daily commitment. A daily yes.

So as I celebrate a beautiful new beginning this weekend, I’m reminded of this: We don’t have to have it all figured out. We don’t have to feel strong every day. We just have to keep showing up… and keep choosing. Keep choosing love. Keep choosing faith. Keep choosing the life God has called you to live. 

And some days, that choice might feel small. But those small, quiet “yeses”? They build something strong. Something lasting. Something God can use in ways we never imagined.

So today, whatever you’re facing—just start with a yes.



Motivational Monday

Hey friends!  We have a busy week this week at Spring Creek.  Remember, we have the Maundy Thursday Service, Sonrise Service (remember, the men will feed you breakfast afterwards and I hear they throw down!) and Easter Sunday Service.  I hope to see you at one or all the services!

Speaking of Easter.  I’ve been thinking a lot about Easter lately—not just the celebration, not just the empty tomb—but what was left inside it.  So you know the drill, let’s talk about it.

I have a very dear childhood friend who is a 46 year old mom, wife, teacher and sister in Christ who battled breast cancer.  When I say she battled it, she fought it.  And she fought it with pure grace and while wearing the armor of God.  It was honestly beautiful.  I can tell you stories for days that reflect her conviction for the Lord.  This week, she had a setback.  To be honest, we aren’t sure exactly what that setback is but we know there is something wrong.  Could be something.  Could be nothing.  She physically is not her best and mentally, the stress is wearing on her.  You know…fair.  But this week, the Lord has shown her over and over and over again to lay down her burdens and to leave it.  

When Peter stepped into the tomb, he didn’t just see that Jesus was gone… he saw the grave clothes. Folded. Left behind. (John 20:6–7)

And that detail stopped me.  (The details in the Bible are always very intentional)

Because Jesus didn’t walk out of that grave dragging what had once held Him.  

He left it there.

Here’s the question I can’t shake this week:

If the tomb is empty… why are we still wearing grave clothes?

I’m talking about the things we carry that God has already called us out of.  The guilt from something we’ve already been forgiven for.  The labels we picked up in a hard season.  The habits we developed just trying to survive.  The thoughts that whisper, “This is just who you are.” or “Why me?” Maybe those things made sense at one point.  Maybe they even protected you.

But hear me gently— what helped you survive the grave was never meant to define your life outside of it.

In John 11:44, when Lazarus came out of the tomb, Jesus told the people around him, “Take off the grave clothes and let him go.”Even after he was brought back to life… he still needed help removing what had been wrapped around him.

That tells me something important:

Being brought out is one thing. Learning to live free is another.

Some of us are out… but we’re still wearing it.Still wearing shame.  Still wearing fear.  Still wearing old identities that no longer fit who God says we are.

And maybe it’s not because we want to—maybe it’s just because it’s familiar.

But Hebrews 12:1 reminds us to “throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles.” You can’t walk in freedom while holding onto what buried you.

So maybe this week isn’t about striving harder or doing more.Maybe it’s about asking yourself: What am I still wearing that God already told me to leave behind?

And then—one piece at a time—letting it go.

Not perfectly.  Not all at once.  But intentionally.

Because 2 Corinthians 5:17 says that if anyone is in Christ, they are a new creation. The old is gone, the new is here.

That’s not just a nice idea. That’s truth.

Friend, if God brought you out of it…you don’t have to keep wearing it.

The tomb is empty. And you were never meant to live dressed for it.

Love you all, 

Jennifer


Motivational Monday

Hey friends!  This morning as I drove to work, NO ONE was on the road.  Ya’ll.  It was so nice.  No school traffic.  No one is about to run you over because they are more in a hurry than you.  I wondered what was happening??!  Why is no one working?  Then, it hit me.  Spring Break.  And that immediately got me thinking about today’s motivation.

I am a planner that likes to wing it (does that make sense)?  Anyway, I am not much of an overpacker or overthinker.  But let me tell you who is…my mom and my sister!  My sister is not as bad as my mother.  My mother brings an entire pharmacy everywhere she goes for “you never know when you will need cortisone cream.”  (like we far from the nearest Walmart 🙄).  She is the queen of “just in case.”  Just in case you need a bandaid.  Just in case we suddenly become a completely different person who falls down while having a belly ache and a head ache, which has never happened in my 46 years*.  But you never know! 😂

And then what happens?  

She takes another piece of luggage for the “just in case items”. And nothing ever happens.  And she ended up dragging around way more than she actually needed.

But isn’t it funny… how we do the exact same thing in life?  Let’s talk about it.

  • We pack worry about things that haven’t even happened.  
  • We carry guilt from things God has already forgiven.  
  • We hold onto hurt that we were never meant to keep.  
  • We take on responsibility that was never ours to begin with.

And then we wonder why we’re so tired.

Maybe we’re not just tired… maybe we’re overpacked.

The Bible tells us in Hebrews 12:1 to “Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us,.”  That means some of the weight we’re carrying? We were never meant to keep it.

Some of us aren’t exhausted because life is hard…We’re exhausted because we’re carrying things God never asked us to carry.

We keep trying to fit it all in—fear, control, other people’s opinions, past mistakes—and then we’re surprised when we feel weighed down.

Spring break is a simple reminder: you can’t take everything with you.  You have to choose.

So let me ask you—what are you holding onto that it’s time to leave behind? What would happen if this week, instead of trying to carry it all… you finally let some of it go?

Because here’s the truth: You were never meant to carry everything.

So maybe this week, we stop overpacking.  Maybe we trust God enough to set some things down.  And maybe… we finally travel a little lighter.

I hope you all have a wonderful, fun and safe Spring Break week!

Love you all,

Jennifer

*For the record, I adore my mother.  I LOVE that she cares so much about other people’s needs. I wouldn’t trade that for the world.

 

Motivational Monday

Yesterday at church we had our mission’s fundraiser and a time of fellowship together. There was food, conversation, laughter, and the simple joy of being in a room with people who love the Lord. Nothing flashy. Nothing complicated. Just people sharing a simple meal of soups and grilled cheeses and spending time together.

And it reminded me of something important.  Let’s talk about it.

Yesterday, as most of you know, I was working at the mission’s lunch.  I do this every year and honestly, I am exhausted afterwards.  BUT!  I wouldn’t miss it for the world.  I genuinely enjoy cooking and serving everyone.  But mostly, I enjoy talking and serving those who are also there to help.  You usually get paired up with someone and you know them but you get to KNOW them when you work with them.  And every year, I end up getting to know someone else even more than I did previously.  Those very small details make me the happiest….truly.

So often we look for the big moments in life—the big blessings, the big answers to prayer, the big mountaintop experiences. But many times, God shows up in the quiet, ordinary moments along the way.

A conversation over lunch.
A laugh with a friend.
A shared table after church.

Those small moments are gifts.

Ecclesiastes 3:13 says, also that everyone should eat and drink and take pleasure in all his toil—this is God’s gift to man.”

God designed us for community, for fellowship, and for joy in the everyday parts of life. Sometimes the blessing isn’t the destination. Sometimes the blessing is the journey itself.

Psalm 118:24 reminds us, “This is the day that the Lord has made; we will rejoice and be glad in it.”

So this week, don’t rush past the ordinary moments looking for something bigger. Slow down. Enjoy the conversation. Appreciate the people around you. Be grateful for the small blessings that fill your day.

Because often, that’s exactly where God is working.

Thank you to everyone who attended yesterday.  The OutReach Team really appreciates it.

Love you all,

Jennifer


Motivational Monday

Hey friends!  Just a quick reminder.  We have our Missions Lunch this Sunday.  I would love to see everyone there!  What I love about the Mission Lunch is the opportunity to hear about what is happening with our missionaries and all over the world.  AND!!  You get to eat!  To answer the question, NO!  You don’t have to bring anything but yourself. Just come to church, bring a friend, hear the message and eat!!  I hope to see you all there.

Yesterday while I was sitting in church, I was enjoying the message from Rev. Pounds.  I am always looking for opportunities for my Motivational Mondays (in church, the grocery store, work, etc.) and he mentioned Judas.  And I started thinking, Judas is a very main but not main piece of Jesus’s story.  Jesus was so much more than what Judas did but yet without Judas, how would the story have been different?  Why should we focus on Judas at all?  Well, let’s talk about it.

Who was Judas Iscariot before he met Jesus?

Per most scholars, the last name Iscariot means, “man of Kerioth” which is a town in Judea.  If he was from Judea, this potentially made him the only non-Galilean among the twelve apostles. Judas was a business minded individual who was into fish drying (sounds thrilling…) near the Sea of Galilee when he met the other disciples of Jesus.  He was the treasurer of the disciples because he seemed capable of money handling. Although, later in the Bible, he was described as being dishonest with money.  To put all of this in regular Jennifer words…he was just a guy trying to make it in life who was less than perfect but did not appear to be a “bad dude”.  

For those who are unaware of who Judas was in the Bible, he was the one that betrayed Jesus.  And Jesus knew he was going to be betrayed because he said at the Last Supper one of his disciples was going to betray him.  Did he know it was going to Judas?  Absolutely!  In fact, John 6:64 says, “But there are some of you who do not believe.” (For Jesus knew from the beginning who those were who did not believe, and who it was who would betray him.)”.  If he knew he was going to be betrayed by this man, why in the world did he pick HIM to be a disciple?  Well, it was part of the predetermined plan to our salvation.  Basically, Judas agreed to betray Jesus for 30 pieces of silver which was about 4 months worth of work at that time.  4 months worth of work seems really insignificant when you gave up Jesus.  Am I right?

This is a great history lesson Jennifer but this is Motivational Monday! I need motivation!  I.got.you.  Don’t get discouraged.  I just need you to fully understand who we are dealing with here.

I feel like Judas didn’t start off “bad”.  He wasn’t a criminal although he had his moments.  He was around Jesus and he saw lots of miracles Jesus performed.  He heard His teachings.  Heck, he was even trusted with the money.  But yet, he betrayed Him because his heart was somewhere else.

Have you ever gone through the motions of going to church but felt disconnected?  Or maybe you had a situation where you had to make a decision to do what is right but you just couldn’t surrender?  If you have ever felt this way, do you think you would feel differently if you heard the gospel come out of Jesus’s mouth directly?  I think most of us would say, “Ummm…yeah!”  I ask because Judas was there everyday and heard Jesus.  And yet, he wasn’t changed.  Being close to Jesus is not the same thing as belonging to Him.  

You can go to church.  You can surround yourself with good, christian people.  You can write Motivational Mondays!!  You can do all these things and still not surrender your heart.  Literally, Judas heard it and saw it first hand and it wasn’t enough.  He showed us it is possible to walk with Jesus but keep him at arm’s length.  Real faith begins the moment we stop just being near Him—and finally surrender to Him.

If you are like me, you have probably not given Judas much thought except he’s the guy that got Jesus crucified.  He was a sell out.  And these thoughts are not untrue.  But outwardly, he appeared to be one of Jesus’ closest followers but yet…he never surrendered.  Have you?

Key Aspects of Surrendering Your Heart:

  • Acknowledge and Release Control: Recognize your limitations and actively choose to let go of the need to manage every outcome. This often feels uncomfortable but is described as a path to peace.
  • Daily Prayerful Surrender: Start each day by inviting God to lead, using simple prayers like “Lord, I give you this day”.
  • Submit to God’s Will: Shift from “my will” to “Your will,” acknowledging God’s authority over your life’s direction.
  • Study Scripture and Build Trust: Read the Bible to understand God’s character, which makes it easier to trust Him, especially during chaotic times.
  • Practice in Small Things: Surrender is not just for major crises; it includes letting go of the need to be right, managing your schedule, and releasing personal desires.
  • Be Honest and Vulnerable: Bring your true feelings, anxieties, and struggles to God rather than pretending everything is fine.
  • Surround Yourself with Support: Connect with others who are also learning to live a surrendered life to encourage you in the process. 

Surrender is a daily practice, not a one-time event, and it involves allowing God to care for you so you can better care for others.

Love you all,

Jennifer


Motivational Monday

Hey friends!!  Y’all.  I am LOVING this weather!!  I love not being cold all the time!  Now, I want to go ahead and warn you, I will complain soon over how hot it is.  75 degrees is about perfect weather in Jennifer’s world.  🙂  

Do you consider yourself a good christian?  Not perfect but you try.  Do you get tired?  And this could be spiritually but really it’s emotionally and physically.  You are tired from everyday stuff.  Well, let’s talk about it.

For the last couple of months, I have worked more Saturdays than not.  I have been to the dentist so many times that my dental insurance is tapped out FOR THE YEAR.  This week, my cat is having surgery and I have to go to the doctor.  Not to mention, I worked until 6pm tonight.  I am not telling you this to feel sorry for me.  I am telling you this because it is just life.  Nothing huge is happening (my cat’s surgery is very minor.  Yes I’m worried about her but not overly).  But I’ll say it, I’m tired.  When I have week’s like this, this is when I will miss church on Sundays.  I make excuses why I couldn’t come but they are just excuses.  The root is, I am tired.  I set my one day I have to worship to the side so I can rest.  When I should be taking things off my plate so I don’t feel the need to rest on Sunday.  It’s a choice.  It’s my choice and there is no one to blame but me.

Most Mondays, I write these motivations.  A lot of times, they are from my life.  Minor issues that I can write about because I feel like it affects everyone day to day.  There are some topics I write about, that I think I am pretty good on…like questioning God.  I really don’t question Him for the most part at this stage in my life.  But I do get tired.  And sometimes I wonder if I am burning the candle at both ends because I don’t trust Him.  Meaning, I don’t think He created us to bulldoze our way through life.  Am I like this because I want to make sure we are financially ok?  Or is it because I am trying to live life to the max?  For me, it’s both.  I am not going to be able to keep up this pace forever.  Am I wearing myself out?  Probably.  Do I pray about it all the time?  Absolutely.

“Even youths shall faint and be weary, and young men shall fall exhausted; but they who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles; they shall run and not be weary; they shall walk and not faint.”  Isaiah 40:30-31

Even the youths shall faint and be weary..” Think about a child in your life.  When you have tried to put them down for a nap, they INSIST they don’t need one.  You can look at them and they are red and glassy.  They are irritable.  They need sleep but they fight it…and they are 3!  I’m 46.  Why do I think I can outdo a 3 year old with a gazillion times more energy than me??! Even youths, with all their energy and excitement, fall tired.  One thing I have to tell myself, is it’s okay to be tired.  I am not a failure.  Even scripture backs me up here.  God knows we will get tired.

“…but they who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength”.  Well, that’s what we are supposed to do about it.  We have limits.  God doesn’t.  We can’t do it all.  But He can.  God knows we will get tired and weary.  God never tires.  When we get tired, we don’t need to push through it.  This is our opportunity to lean on Him for His endless and everlasting strength.  Remember, everything that you are not, He is.  He will pick up where you left off.  Work with God as a team.

Maybe I’ll remember this since I wrote it down.

Love you all,

Jennifer


Motivational Monday

Hey friends!  Were you able to hear Pastor Scott’s sermon yesterday?  I loved it.  It really hit home for me and it was on a topic that I know I was good on. 😂  If you didn’t hear it, no biggie, just go to facebook and it’s posted there.  

As for this week’s motivation…

This morning when I woke up, I had a lot on my mind.  Nothing life changing or worth noting really.  Just things that I needed to do today.  For the record, it was a very average day.  Nothing big happened (which is usually GREAT news!).  But I wasn’t able to complete what I felt like was something I needed to accomplish.  No different than most Mondays.  But at 7:03am, I am making a mental checklist of trying to manage a week that hasn’t happened.  I am trying to control the future.  Does that resonate with you?  Let’s talk about it.

We can give one hundred percent at a job and it still may not be enough. We can extensively prepare for an important event and plans may still go awry. We can love and care for others and still be misunderstood, even hated. We can raise our kids to follow Christ and they can still walk away from the faith.  On a logical level, we can know that God is in control and we are not. Yet, how many of us tire ourselves out each day searching for answers and fighting for control over things that we physically can not change? 

What does it look like to honestly surrender to God when we’re scared and overwhelmed by what could happen?  Well, let’s be honest here.  Surrender feels like we are giving in or worse, giving up.  We think it’s a sign of hopelessness but as a christian, that can’t be further from the truth.  Surrender is an opportunity for dependence. It’s an opportunity to actively dwell in the reality of our own inadequacy. Jennifer, you are really selling it here.  🙄 But, surrender is recognizing that He is the omnipotent God, who works all things for good (and we are flawed, limited, sinful beings unable to save ourselves).  

“Blessed is the one who does not walk in step with the wicked or stand in the way that sinners take or sit in the company of mockers, but whose delight is in the law of the Lord, and who meditates on his law day and night. That person is like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season and whose leaf does not wither—whatever they do prospers.” Psalm 1:1-3

Okay, so why is surrender so hard?  Well, there are three main reasons.  First, it’s a lack of knowledge- meaning, we know the answer better than anyone (yep, including God!).  Second, would be impatience.  We want it fixed NOW!  And third, we want it all pain free.  We don’t want to suffer through anything.  We just want to make it all go away as quickly as possible.  And bonus reason!  You have trust issues!  You don’t fully trust He has your back.

Why should we surrender?  It takes discipline.  Discipline is part of our walk with Christ.  Think about someone you trust.  That relationship is intimate.  Well, why would your relationship be different with God if you trusted Him? It strengthens that bond and forms intimacy.  Surrender isn’t something that is a maybe…it’s a must.  Especially in today’s world.  There are so many things that are beyond our control.

My Monday didn’t go as planned.  Let me rephrase that.  Monday didn’t go as I planned it.  It wasn’t a bad day.  It wasn’t a good day.  It was the day that God planned for me to have.  Instead of being disappointed, I should feel relieved.  Relieved to know that He is more than a safety net.  He’s our harness.  

Love you all,

Jennifer


Motivational Monday

Hey friends!  I’m back!  Thank you so much for allowing me to get away and regroup.  During this break, I realized I need to take smaller breaks (a week here and there) instead of a month-long break at a time.  Listen I REALLY enjoyed my time regrouping but it felt weird.  I guess I am just used to writing these on Monday and motivating myself!  So let’s get back to it.

If you are like me, you sit back and question certain things.  For instance, if God really forgives me when I sin, why can’t I just sin and ask for forgiveness?  So, let’s talk about it.

I was sitting there the other day contemplating various things.  I was thinking about people and things.  And some of my thoughts were ugly.  I actually had to stop and tell myself some of my thoughts were sinful.  And then I thought, “Well, I’ll just ask for forgiveness.”  Surely, I’m not the only one who does this right?  I was always taught that you don’t sin but if you do, ask for forgiveness with your heart and you should be good.  But, I don’t understand why is there a double standard?  Meaning, God knew we needed a way to be forgiven but you shouldn’t commit a sin knowing you will ask for forgiveness and expect to be forgiven.  In laymen’s terms, why is the hall pass conditional?

I think we can all agree that sin is destructive.  Pride can ruin your reputation whether you are a Christian or not.  Selfishness can ruin marriages and friendships.  Paul warns Christians not to sin in their anger, he adds, “and give no opportunity to the devil” because sin invites Satan to wreak greater havoc in our lives. That’s why Proverbs warns: “An evil man is ensnared in his transgression, but a righteous man sings and rejoices” (Proverbs 29:6). Resisting temptation and doing what’s right doesn’t just please God, it’s good for you.

Sin is addicting.  People think of addicts as those who drink too much or have a drug problem.  But think about gossip, lies, envy and pride…all very addictive behaviors.  That’s why Romans 6:16 says, “Do you not know that if you present yourselves to anyone as obedient slaves, you are slaves of the one whom you obey, either of sin, which leads to death, or of obedience, which leads to righteousness?” You are either growing in your addiction to sin or growing in your addiction to righteousness.

Lastly, sin hinders our fellowship with God.  If you’re sinning, you ain’t praying.  Can I get an amen?  We need to remember how a Christian’s sin affects the heart of God. Paul urged the church in Ephesus, “do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God” (Ephesians 4:30) and the psalmist reminded us, “If I had cherished iniquity in my heart, the Lord would not have listened” (Psalm 66:18). Notice that it’s not sin that we’ve regretted and asked for forgiveness for that’s a problem. But while we cherish iniquity or ungodliness,  while we defend it, justify it and continue in it, it gets in the way of the relationship that God wants with us.

So, look.  Everyone sins but it’s not ok; and, we can’t “make it ok” because we will be forgiven.  Let me use losing weight as an example.  You can’t lose weight when you have one hand in the cookie jar.  You have to eat right and exercise.  But sometimes, you mess up or maybe you thought that chinese food would be healthy.  But it wasn’t, and you gained a pound or two you lost.  No big deal because you just have to get back on the band wagon.   But how are you going to lose weight when you eat nothing but cookies and cake?

This week your motivation is to stay mindful.  Thoughts creep in.  Sins sometimes not meant to be purposeful (and sometimes they are…).  Stay aware of when and how this happens.  Look at your emotions, before and after the sin and look for ways to combat this in the future.  And God does love you.  He loves you so much that He sent His Son to die for you.  YOU!  And all your sins.  Don’t knowingly sin on His Son’s behalf.  

Love you all and see you next week,

Jennifer



Page 1 of 3

Powered by WordPress & Theme by Anders Norén